Years in a garden
I am twenty-seven, and my husband and I bought this little
house, and moved in with our three small boys. The Frog catcher, the Dark-Eyed
Toddler, and the Fat Baby with Red Hair. The land around the house suits us...
It is empty and yet full at the same time. Patches of buttercup and hardy
dandelion, yellow and green spilling in little puddles without shape or form.
Underneath the soil is deep and rich, and I am very busy, and strong. Even with
the fat baby on my back, I can do so many things. The very old woman comes from
the next house over, and tells me how happy she is to see my family here,
because her children played in this yard with the ones that lived here almost
fifty years ago, and she sees my boys and remembers. The toddler interrupts us,
naked, because he has buried his pants. I dig them up (they were the good
pants, of course), and I see how lovely the soil is, dark and fine, and then I
notice the broken chicken coop over the new property line. I know that this was
once a chicken farm, and I am happy.
I am young and I have ideas, and I imagine colors. It is
easy to start plants from seed, and the ginger baby on my back says his first
word, in the nursery department by the racks. “Seeds” he says from behind my
hair, in a way that sounds like the start of a prayer. The Seed Invoker. I am
young, and very strong, and I plant the seeds and the colors come. I need an
offering for the soil after the flowers. The pretty young girl at the coffee
stand wrinkles her nose. “You want our garbage?” she says. I see that her nails
are perfect and clean, while mine are worn and dirty. “Yes, I would like your
spent grounds,” I say, and I realize that I am not like her. I take the
treasure in the garbage bag home, and my husband shows me how to mix it to feed
the soil.
I am getting older, and I need quiet and enclosure. I crave
green silence, a place to be. The mobile home park nearby is to be bulldozed,
and there are lovely old trees. I dig those with a fifty pound spike that I
rent from incredulous clerks at the hardware store. “A spud? YOU want a spud?”
they say. Yes, yes, I do, and I use it to extract the two hundred pound rhodies
and snowball trees, and I drag them home from the tailgate of my station wagon,
placing them at the back of the land, forming a circle of quiet, anchoring the
corners, their shapes showing me where now to place the flowers. My husband no
longer asks where plants come from, because he knows the answer is “a place by
the side of the road.” I assure him it is not stealing, the plants were to be
burned, it is plant liberation. He is skeptical, and impressed that I broke
three good shovels that spring, and nods in resignation when the Frog Catcher
observes that I am "different from ladies.".
Another baby comes. I have less time to work in the garden.
I am not as strong as I was at twenty-seven. I am thirty-two. This year I let
the forget-me-not take over the beds, spilling over the boundaries. I dress the
new baby in a tiny suit and put him in the middle of this blue sea, and take
his picture.
I need even more quiet. I am 35. Life is harder. I have to
be in the world and I don’t know who I am anymore. I am scared. I build up the
soil and plant more things at the edges. I move the larger plants around like
furniture, testing each angle, finding the hiding places. It is a secret
garden.
I am 39. The garden is deemed “fabulous” by my lovely friend
who comes to visit, the poet who moved to New York to write because this place
hurt him so badly and he can’t breath in this town. He can breath in my garden,
though. It is perfect. He has loved me since I was ten. I was kind, I was safe.
He dies a year later, and his mother gives me his ashes, because she says that
I am his only home, and I place them deeply into the earth just forward of the
first bend of the Secret Garden, with a purple rose bush to grow topside. I
clean the hen house, dumping the chicken leavings over his grave, punishing
him, because he had the temerity to die without my express permission. Or
saying good-bye. I feel guilty, but better, ever more so when I call his mother
to apologize, and she laughs, implying that he often behaved like the substance
on the hen house floor, in diminutive form. I bring an offering of more purple
flowers, to say sorry and I love you. They bloom every year, probably better so
because of what I now call the Angry Chicken House Incident. The mother dies
soon, too, and she sleeps under the peony next to him. “I’m next,” the step dad
says, while I pat the dirt around her. “I am not collecting the whole set of y’all”
is my answer, muttered under my breath as a kindness.
I can’t collect many more plants now, either. The older ones
I have are casting shade and rooted deeply. They leave little room for babies,
they are steady and immovable and block the sun. I am forty-nine. I am steady,
rooted, even, but not yet immovable. I grab the pruning shears and bring back
the light.